Is Your Toddler’s Language Developing Normally?

Do some of you wonder if your toddler is speaking enough?  We hear some mom’s talking about their child speaking 30 words at 12 months and other children who may only say “mama” and “dada”.  So are they both okay?  YES! Every child develops differently in social, emotional, physical, language, and cognitive development.  This is why it’s so important not to compare your child to another.

What is normal language development?  A 12 month old may speak 0 words to 40 words.  A 24 month old may speak 10 words to 600 hundred words.  What’s important is that you notice your child trying to communicate and trying to connect with you.

If you want to improve your child’s language development, the following are 3 things you can do:

1. Talk to Your Child

Talk to them during daily activities.  Also, describe when you are doing something.  For example, if you are cleaning the dishes, then say to your child, “Mommy is cleaning the dishes.” “Mommy is putting the dishes in the dishwasher.  Remember, to talk slow, clear, and in short sentences. Finally, expand on something your child says.  For example, if they say “bird”.  You can say, “Yes, that is a red bird in a tree.”

2. Read to Your Child

It’s important to introduce your child to books early and its okay if they are not that interested initially.  Never force your child to read.  You want them to associate reading with pleasure and special time with Mommy or Daddy.  Have your child’s books available for them to read at any time.  Also, find books that are bright, colorful with simple artwork. Children seem to really like these books. I know my daughter does!  If you are a stay at home Mom, often libraries offer story time for toddlers.  Attending these events will not only help them with their language development but also their social development.

3. Gestures

A research study found that using gestures, such as pointing while talking to your children can also help with language development.  This is different from doing sign language with your child, which can also help children communicate their needs.

I encourage you to do all of these things to help improve your child’s language development.  If you don’t see any improvement in the months ahead and your child doesn’t seem interested in communicating with others, then talk with your pediatrician or speech therapist.  Early intervention is key for children with any developmental delays.

Sources:

Mitchell, L. (2009) Using Gestures with Toddlers Helps Language Development, Journal of Science.

Spencer, P. (2000) Parenting: Guide to Your Toddler. New York: Random House.